As the nation takes it’s ever nearing steps towards our second Covid lockdown this week I felt it was only right to address the very large elephant in the room and no I am not referring to Boris Johnson. If anyone out there suffers with anxiety like myself, then I can imagine the anouncement of another month long lockdown has caused you much distress. However I am writing this post to hopefully help some others out there who have their worries and concerns about the upcoming lockdown and giving my advice on how best to handle it.
Unfortunately, we are now entering the colder and darker months which automatically makes this lockdown more difficult than the last as we don’t have the joy of long summer evenings keeping us company this time round. However even though we are getting deeper into the depths of winter as this lockdown comes into play, that doesn’t mean we have to let this lockdown defeat us. We got through the first lockdown which means we can get through this one as well. You will notice I say ‘we’ rather than the singular ‘you’ as I want to emphasise that you are not going through this alone and we are all in the same boat together. Make the time to call or face time friends and check in with those around you to make sure that they aren’t struggling, especially if they live alone or are currently working from home. It is so important to just simply ask someone if they are okay and to make sure that your loved ones aren’t finding things too hard.
The reason I stress this is because I have recently made the decision to decrease my medication after spending years taking tablets to help me handle my depression and anxiety. I am currently going through withdrawal from these and it is one of the hardest things I’ve ever experienced. I feel nauseous, exhausted, spaced out and emotionless and that’s a few from the list. Some mornings have felt unbearable and even though I haven’t wanted to reach out to others, simple texts or check ins from my friends and those around me has really made a difference. Lockdown has opened peoples eyes and made them experience what it feels like to feel isolated and alone. Please don’t suffer in silence as so many people are fighting invisible battles that you don’t know about and I don’t want lockdown to make you feel like you are even more alone than before.
I think another major thing to remember is to not put too much pressure on yourself to be productive every single day. Majority of people will be off work or working from home as they have been previously, so remember to be kind to yourself if you have a lazy day. Just because other people are doing home workouts or making banana bread or whatever the next social media hype is, it doesn’t mean that you have to be doing that as well. Spend time doing things that make you happy; watch films you have been meaning to watch for ages or read the books that you have said you’re going to read but haven’t had time too. Explore walking spots to clear your head and even if it is just going round your estate, make sure you get some fresh air and don’t stay cooped up inside. Sometimes it is okay to simply feel too exhausted to do anything but exist and that’s okay but always remember that no matter how hard today was, you have made it through it.
One thing I advise doing that has really helped me is to unfollow any social media accounts that make you feel like you’re not good enough. Alternatively set limits on your social media so that you aren’t spending as much time scrolling through your phone. By doing this you can stop comparing yourself to others throughout the upcoming lockdown and spend more time doing valuable things. What people post on social media is what they want you to see and not reality so please don’t let that get you down. I currently have a list as long as my arm of books I want to read so that is going to be my pass time for a while, or paying off my house loan on Animal Crossing (if you know, you know).
One thing I do when I sit down to eat my dinner every evening is I think of one thing I am thankful for from that day. No matter how big or small, if I am feeling down I try to focus on something that has been good from that day. Take the positive things with you into the next and leave the negative moments behind you. They are to leave behind with yesterday and take the smallest or biggest moments of happiness forward with you into tomorrow. I am not a mental health professional but I find writing down my thoughts beneficial for my own mental health. I just want to try and help any one around me get through this difficult time in any way I can. We’ve got this and together, we can overcome Boris and his ludicrous lockdown. Stay safe, stay distanced and wash your hands.
Peace and love through this crazy month
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